Read the Obituaries

I recently read Charles Wheelan's "10 Things Your Commencement Speaker Won't Tell You" in the WSJ.  One of his points was to read obituaries.  He said that "They remind us that interesting, successful people rarely lead orderly, linear lives."  This made me think about my own decisions, paths and potential journey forward.  It validated for me that one's professional life rarely turns out the way one imagines and that is the way it should be.  So, take stock that you hopefully have a plan for yourself but embrace that it will likely evolve in unforeseen ways.  And, read the obituaries more often. Have a great day!

The Value of the Web in Your Search

Every week, I am reminded of the wealth of information that can be found on the web.  For the job search, one immediately thinks of career sites with job postings.  While these are useful, they can be a time sinkhole, where job seekers naively believe they are making progress.  The key is to link an opportunity you see online back to a person you know, which marries the power of the web with the art of networking .

There is also an abundance of advice to be found online on a variety of job search topics.  One of my favorite resources is www.theladders.com.  I have the free basic account.  It gives you limited access to job postings but gets you the newsletter of which I am a fan.  You can also go on the site to read articles on resume advice, interview questions, offer negotiations, etc.  Happy surfing!

Best,
Sonal

You Need a Sparring Partner

I attended a career coaching seminar recently.  One of the topics briefly covered was on job search buddies.  I agreed that it truly helps to have a partner who is going through the same experience.  You can provide support for one another during the journey.  But, of course, choose wisely.

Pick someone who is optimistic by nature, is action-oriented and has a good sense of humor.  You will need these skills from this person at some point in your job search.  One of the most important roles this person plays is up front in the job search process when you are brainstorming about your aspirations, wants and needs...no matter how crazy.  This is your first entry in jobgenda.   It is only one page.  But, the clarity that is required when you actually have to write it down in black and white is invaluable.

You need someone who can push you, think outside the box, raise your game, and dare to dream with you.  Ideally, someone who knows you well who can piece together your history, current story and daydreams into a cohesive, inspirational view of your future.  That is the most important thing you can do for one another.  Then, the steps can fall into place with a plan, but first you want the right vision.